Choosing the Right Child Care for Your Family

Explore how different options might work best for you and your child.

It’s easy to get overwhelmed when trying to find child care for your baby. No matter what decision you make—whether having a parent or in-law watch your child, hiring a full-time sitter or au pair, or enrolling them in a community or private day care center—you and your baby will have to make adjustments to your routine. But if you go into the search with a few considerations already thought through, you’ll likely find quality care for your child that makes you feel comfortable, makes your baby feel safe, and makes the whole family happy.

Child Care Budget

Understanding the differences between caregivers can help you plan your budget:

Nanny: Full-time caregiver in your home, typically the most expensive option ($800+/week).
Au pair: Lives in your home for 1–2 years, cares for your child up to 45 hours/week. Requires room, board, and a weekly stipend (~$195.75), sometimes cheaper than a nanny.
Babysitter: Part-time or occasional care, paid hourly. Can cover evenings, weekends, or pick-ups from day care.
Group Day Care: Commercial facility or home-based care with multiple children. Generally less expensive than a nanny, but infant care can still reach $400+/week.
Family Care: Parent or in-law can watch your child. Discuss compensation and expectations before starting care.

Scheduling Logistics

Consider your work schedule and flexibility needs:

Day care centers: Team of caregivers ensures coverage even if someone is sick, but hours are fixed.
Home-based care: May offer more flexible drop-off and pick-up times, often at a lower cost.

Licensing

Always ask if the facility is state-licensed. Licensed centers must meet safety and health standards, including infant-to-caregiver ratios and first aid. Some faith-based or public school centers may be exempt, but it’s wise to check.

Location of Child Care

Location can impact your routine and your baby’s adjustment:

In-home care: Baby stays in familiar surroundings, sleeps in their crib, follows existing schedule.
Day care center: Introduces baby to new settings and caregivers, helping with socialization.

Test your commute during regular weekday hours before committing, to ensure drop-off and pick-up are manageable.

Shared Values

Your child’s caregiver should align with your parenting values:

Screen time rules, nutrition choices, or sleep schedules.
Day care centers often have clear policies you can review.
Solo caregivers or relatives should be briefed on your expectations and agree to follow them.

Trust Your Instincts

While practical factors are important, your gut feeling matters. If something feels off during interviews or visits, reconsider the arrangement. Comfort and confidence in your caregiver are key.

Final Thoughts

Choosing the right child care involves balancing budget, schedule, licensing, location, values, and instinct. The best quality care ensures your baby is thriving and happy while giving you peace of mind that they’re in capable hands.